identity – Angela Van Winkle http://www.angelavanwinkle.com Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding - Proverbs 3:5 NIV Wed, 31 Jan 2018 03:21:45 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.7.6 Who Cares What People Think http://www.angelavanwinkle.com/2018/01/who-cares-what-people-think/ Wed, 31 Jan 2018 03:08:54 +0000 http://www.angelavanwinkle.com/?p=99 I’ve lived most of my life caring about what people think of me. It has held me back from voicing my opinion in a lot of situations. This past year I’ve focused my efforts on not worrying so much about what people think of me. Instead of worrying all the time about pleasing people, I’ve […]

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]]> I’ve lived most of my life caring about what people think of me. It has held me back from voicing my opinion in a lot of situations. This past year I’ve focused my efforts on not worrying so much about what people think of me. Instead of worrying all the time about pleasing people, I’ve started focusing my thoughts on how I can please God. I ask this question often, “Are the things I’m doing, saying and experiencing glorifying God or are they taking away my joy and adding worry?”

This past weekend I ventured out on my own and attended the Bethel Music Wild Love Event, in Jacksonville, Florida. I was so pleasantly overwhelmed by just how excited everyone was to be worshiping God. No one cared what everyone else thought of them and it was quite amazing. We were all there seeking the same thing…to have an encounter with God. I wanted to jump, shout and just worship God, but my mind was holding me back. I kept having thoughts like, “did I do that right, do I look silly dancing around, what do people think of me.” What’s even funnier is how quick people are to jump and shout at concerts while listening to their favorite band. I’m guilty of this too. Yet, when it comes to worshipping our creator, we just stand there at church.

“Obviously, I’m not trying to win the approval of people, but of God. If pleasing people were my goal, I would not be Christ’s servant.”
Galatians 1:10 NLT

It was an eye opening experience for me. The second night of the event, I too was jumping, shouting and raising my hands. That night, I had so much fun and I experienced God’s presence more than ever. I declared that I would not care so much about what people think of me because I do not live to please people. That feels amazing to say!

Everyday I will strive to show my gratitude to God. My identity is no longer in what people think of me, but rather in who God says I am. It’s okay to honor and help people, but we need to stop caring so much about what the world thinks of us. I know without a shadow of doubt that those worldly labels will start to fade away as you start believing in the things God says about you.

I’ll end this post with one of my favorites from Bethel Music! It’s so good!

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]]> Finding Your Identity in Christ http://www.angelavanwinkle.com/2018/01/finding-your-identity-in-christ/ Mon, 01 Jan 2018 03:02:35 +0000 http://www.angelavanwinkle.com/?p=60 Today I want to talk about finding your identity in Christ and what that journey has looked like for me. I actually didn’t realize I had identity issues until last year. Growing up I never felt good enough, pretty enough, smart enough, you name it. I often wondered why I was even alive and sometimes […]

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]]> Today I want to talk about finding your identity in Christ and what that journey has looked like for me. I actually didn’t realize I had identity issues until last year. Growing up I never felt good enough, pretty enough, smart enough, you name it. I often wondered why I was even alive and sometimes wished God would just take me away. I was angry at the world, had low-esteem and absolutely no confidence. I sought out affirmation in guys because I never felt good enough. I remember always talking to boys, writing notes to them and even having a boyfriend at 5 years old. Maybe it was innocent, but it’s something that carried into my middle and high school years.

Ultimately, I think I was trying to fill a void in my life with a man. As I got older my identity started to get wrapped up in how well I was performing in work and in school. If I didn’t get all A’s, I felt like a failure.  This mindset can be attributed somewhat to my mother, who always encouraged and pushed me to make something of myself. As a single mom of 5 kids at the time, she knew what it was like to struggle to make ends meet and she wanted more for her children.

I’m happy that she pushed and encouraged me because I wouldn’t be where I am without her. However, I did start this cycle of defining who I was by my performance and never realized that God wanted me to seek him for affirmation. So what exactly changed last year that made me start seeing my identity and self-worth in Christ?

Jesus replied, “If I glorify myself, my glory means nothing. My Father, whom you claim as your God, is the one who glorifies me.” – John 8:54

Well, I was sitting with a good friend one night just sharing my story. She encouraged me to read a section about identity in this leadership book called “Leadership that Builds People” by Dr. James B. Richards. What’s crazy is I didn’t even realize I had identity issues because it was so embedded in who I was. In the book, I read about anyone who does not have a Bible-based self worth will use others to build themselves up, which is exactly what I had been doing all these years. To feel like I had self-worth I sought the approval from people.

Finding my identity and self-worth in God has been a struggle, 28 years of my life has been wrapped up in a false identity. In 2017, I started reading and believing in the things God says about me in His Word. Some of these things include:

  • I am His daughter
  • I am perfectly and wonderfully made
  • I have strength in Him
  • God will never leave nor forsake me

So what can you do to start finding your identity? I would encourage you to start reading, praying and meditating on the Word of God. I started by downloading the bible app and reading and meditating on the daily verse. I also only listen to Christian radio stations. It’s really great in the mornings especially because 91.7 in Jacksonville has sermons playing and I always ask God to speak to me while listening to them! I hope this was encouraging and I can’t wait for what 2018 will bring!

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